Sunday, March 31, 2013

Happy Easter!

I know I haven't been here for 2 months, but I just wanted to let you know that I am alive and well.  Life has been extremely busy, and there just hasn't been enough time in my weeks for me to write here.  In addition, some other issues have come to light, which have caused me to re-think my blog, its purpose and how others view this site.  I'm not sure how or what changes I need to make . . . it may be that I completely shut down this space, but hopefully I'll be able to write more of something over the next week or so.

However, my primary purpose for today's post is to wish you all a HAPPY EASTER, as I rejoice in knowing that the death and RESURRECTION of Jesus took place for all sinners, providing all of mankind with a way to the Father in Heaven.

Blessings to you!

Monday, January 28, 2013

Motivational Monday: Voices


“Many voices ask for our attention.  There is a voice that says, 'Prove that you are a good person.'  Another voice says, 'You’d better be ashamed of yourself.'  There also is a voice that says, 'Nobody really cares about you,' and one that says, 'Be sure to become successful, popular, and powerful.'  But underneath all these often very noisy voices is a still, small voice that says, 'You are my Beloved, my favor rests on you.'  That’s the voice we need most of all to hear.  To hear that voice, however, requires special effort; it requires solitude, silence, and a strong determination to listen.  That’s what prayer is.  It is listening to the voice that calls us 'my Beloved.'"
- Henri J. M. Nouwen

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Not So Graceful

This week has been challenging.  While I battle away at trying to "educate" in two settings that are vastly different from each other (one at a public school, but not your "typical" pubic school, and the other at homeschool), I often find myself feeling too tired to give my all to one or the other.  Because my day starts with the school outside of my own home, and it takes place primarily in the morning (my peak productivity time), I find my energy levels to be lower than I'd like them to be when I approach my tasks at homeschool.

For the record, our homeschooling is right "on track", according to the plan that we created for the boys at the beginning of the year.  I believe they are learning and they are growing as individuals.  They are developing key relationships with other kids, and I am forever impressed by their ability to adapt to new situations they are placed in.  If you had seen either of my boys as Kindergarten students being dropped off each day by a distraught mother, you might not even recognize these young men that I call my sons.  There has been a growth in them that I once thought was impossible.  That's grace.

However, there are moments that I ponder what I'm doing, how we got "here", and where we go from here.  While I don't allow myself to become consumed with the "what, ifs, ands and buts" of the future, I do look far enough ahead with a sensibility known as common sense, to ensure that a plan is in place for my boys to have every chance any other 18-year old has when they graduate from high school, to begin the adventure of the real world.

Honestly, a huge percentage of my heart just wants to keep them here.  Like this.  Forever.  But I know that can't happen, and it won't happen.  They are going to grow-up and make a life for themselves.  As much as I internally fight this natural progression, it is going to eventually arrive.  And somehow between now and then, they need to gain enough maturity, skill, resilience, knowledge and understanding that an 18-year old male can gain while living for 18 years of their lives with two parents who are not so graceful.  I wish I could embed into their minds, all of the life-experience knowledge I have gained between my own years of 18 - 40, but that is impossible.  They need to experience their own hopes, defeats, joys, heartaches, victories, rejections, fulfillment of dreams . . . their own lives . . . along the way.

As a parent it feels like a daunting task to do all of this "preparation".  Fortunately for our kids, parents are not "Puppeteers", but rather, "Preparers".  In my own little world of parenting, there are many times that I am not so graceful, and my boys see it, they hear it, they know it.  My role as "Preparer" doesn't always meet the job description.

At the beginning of this post I mentioned that this week has been challenging, and then I started rambling on about parenting, my boys, etc., which isn't exactly where I thought this post was going to begin, but that's just what came out as I typed.   And so now I will try to tie that all into what I was going to say in the first place.

What I really wanted to share about was how my own inability to display grace when it is most needed, came to light just last night.  I was thrown into a situation in which I was unprepared mentally for, and I found myself becoming more and more bitter towards a certain person as the evening progressed.  I felt very used and didn't think there was much fairness involved in what was occurring.  Grace was not present in my heart, and even though the words, "Grace Lives Here" were trying desperately to get through to my inner being, I chose to ignore that plea, which was actually God's attempt at restoring my heart to a place of displaying a servant attitude.  Instead, what transpired was not pretty, and I am now going to have to go back and make some attempts to restore a relationship that was tainted by my lack of grace.

After reflecting on the entire incident, I began to realize that while I had reason to feel hurt by what had happened, grace needed to prevail.  Words from Max Lucado's book, Grace, came to mind, and I quote from the book:  "Grace is not blind.  It sees the hurt full well.  But grace chooses to see God's forgiveness even more.  It refuses to allow hurts to poison the heart.  'See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.' (Hebrews 12:15 NIV).  Where grace is lacking, bitterness abounds.  Where grace abounds, forgiveness grows."

The sad part for me in all of this is that my children were witness to my growing anger and bitterness.  While I try to set a good example for them to follow, I frequently finding myself failing to demonstrate grace towards others in the presence of my children.  Grace towards them (my children) comes easier than it does to "outsiders".  Maybe that's normal for a lot of parents, but I don't necessarily think it is right. 

Back to my earlier ramblings about preparing my boys for the real world, I truly hope that the preparation I focus on most is that of their hearts.  Relationships are key to a future that allows God's purposes to be fulfilled in the lives of my boys and in the lives of those around them.  In order for those relationships to be successful, grace is required.  I pray that my life becomes a better example of grace.

Friday, January 25, 2013

Friday's Feast #3

APPETIZER

Name a board game you enjoy playing (Scrabble? Monopoly? Trivial Pursuit?) What's fun about it? Do you change the rules or go by the book?

My favourite board games are games that involve lots of interaction and the use of words.  My current favourites would be The Game of Things, Scattergories and Balderdash.  I also really enjoy card games such as Canasta, Kaiser and Hearts.  I generally don't change the rules to games . . . why would I?

SOUP

How's the weather been in your area lately? Hot and dry? Wet and muggy? Stormy? Beautiful?

It is January in Saskatchewan, Canada . . . which means it's C-O-L-D . . . and windy.  Did I mention it is COLD?

SALAD

Do you consider yourself an emotional person? What types of emotions do you experience most often?

I thought this was a hilarious question, because if you spend more than 10 minutes with me, you'll know the obvious answer.  Yes, I am an emotional person.  The emotions I experience most often are happiness, joy, excitement and a spirit of thankfulness and hope.  Those are all emotions, right? 

If you would have asked me this question 10 years ago, I would have given you a very different answer.  I would have said . . . worry, fear, anxiety, anger, frustration, with happiness mixed-in now-and-then, but not as much as it should have been.

MAIN COURSE

List 3 songs you've been listening to recently. Are these songs from a different category of music than you usually choose, or are you devoted to a certain type of tunes?

Right now I'm really enjoying an artist named Michael Gungor.  According to Grooveshark (my on-line streaming music site), he's considered Gospel/Soul/Worship.  My favourite Michael Gungor song is Beautiful Things.  I also really enjoy Chris Tomlin (anytime), and my favourite song of his at the moment is God's Great Dance Floor.  Since giving my son the newest Taylor Swift CD, Red, I've been listening to it quite a bit.  I know, I know . ? . ? . I'm 40 years old and liking Taylor Swift . . . but her music kind of brings me back to a time in my life 20+ years ago, so I guess I like it because it makes me feel nostalgic. 

My musical preferences tend to gravitate towards worship, songs that evoke life experiences in a compelling way, and songs with lyrics that I can understand and sing along to.

DESSERT

What's on your refrigerator door? Magnets? Your child's drawings? Photos? Calendars?

I have magnets, photos of friends and family, as well as the current Bible memory verse I'm learning for my BOOK Club.  My fridge also functions as a display board for pictures drawn by my boys, as well as "gifts" received from my students at school (i.e. colouring pages that they've completed).  I also have a huge magnet (about 8 x 10 in.) of my favourite hockey player, Doug Gilmour.  I'm not sure where that magnet came from, or how long I've had it.  It's just always been on our fridge.  One other necessary item that is posted on our fridge is Mitchell's youth schedule.

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Thankful Thursday #3

This year I have been tracking my Thankful Three's in a different manner than I did in 2012. I will no longer be posting "Daily Thankfuls" on my blog, but you will get a glimpse into that part of my heart each Thursday, as I post three things I've been thankful for during the week. I'm following along with Ann Voskamp's Joy Dare Outline, which you can download and print here.

THREE THINGS BLUE . . .

1.  The sky.

2.  The sapphire in my family ring, which represents two special boys.

3.  Jeans.

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Top Ten Tuesdays: Favourite Books of the Bible

Never a dull moment in the Bible . . . jam-packed with "Instructions for Life", as well as stories of regular people who were used by God, even though they weren't perfect.  The Inspired Word of God . . . some of my favourite books of the Bible are:

10. Genesis

9.  Isaiah

8.  Proverbs

7.  Ecclesiastes

6.  1 Corinthians

5.  Philippians

4.  James

3.  Psalms

2.  Ephesians

1.  John

Saturday, January 19, 2013

God's Grace for Me is Revolutionary

So, when your mind spends most of the day repeating the mantra, "Grace Lives Here", you really have to wonder what kind of negativity is being reflected in the heart, and in the words/actions of the person who requires that much reminding of grace in her life.  The "her" I refer to is myself.   

The more I realize and understand God's grace, the less gracious I am finding myself to be.  In a weird sort of way, I guess that's a good thing.  It means I have room to grow.  Believe me, I have LOTS of room to grow.  It also means that my heart is seeking guidance from the Holy Spirit, and because I am allowing Him "space" in that part of my heart, which I was obviously trying to hide (big emphasis on the word trying here, since there is no way to keep any secrets from God), my thought life and outward life should reflect more of Christ and less of my sinful nature.  I guess you could say that I'm beginning to work on an attitude adjustment--an attitude that I didn't even realize needed adjusting, until recently.

Right along with this attitude adjustment has come the awareness that I've been too hard on myself for too long.  I have been slowly learning about how to deal with my own guilt over things that have already been covered by God's grace . . . not just covered, but washed away by His grace. I grew up feeling guilty about what I was or was not doing for people, to people, to myself, etc.  Many of my feelings and actions have been guilt-driven, not grace-driven.  It has not been a fun way to live, and God's been showing me where much of these feelings stem from, and how I need to be dealing with them. It's been a slow process, but I feel like I am making some progress.

Experiencing the grace of God is freeing.  Extending grace to humankind is necessary.  Accepting God's grace for me is revolutionary.  May you experience grace in your life today.

"Grace is the voice that calls us to change
and then gives us the power to pull it off." 
~Max Lucado~

Friday, January 18, 2013

Friday's Feast #2

APPETIZER

What is your middle name? Would you change any of your names if you could? If so, what would you like to be called?

My middle name is Renae, and I love it.  If I could change any of my names, I would switch my first and second name around.  I'm not sure if Renae Kimberly sounds that great together, but Renae is a much lesson common name (especially the way mine is spelled), and "Kim" is very common.

SOUP

If you were a fashion designer, which fabrics, colors, and styles would you probably use the most?

This is an interesting question for me, since the only television I've really been watching for the past two months is former seasons of Project Runway, which I have been able to borrow from the public library.  I am interested in fashion, but there is no way I can keep up with current trends due to budget; however, I do like to look stylish and presentable when I exit my house.

I love fabrics that feel good next to the body.  Jersey fabrics with a stretch to them are wonderful to wear, but not so fun to sew.  I would use a mix of black with colour as well, depending on the article of clothing, its purpose, and design.  The styles I would create would be for the everyday woman, not some style that's totally "over-the-top".  I like the "norm", but I would incorporate a bit of a twist--a small detail that sets the item apart from others similar to it.

SALAD

What is your least favorite chore, and why?

I really do not enjoy cleaning my bathrooms, for obvious reasons.

MAIN COURSE
 
What is something that really frightens you, and can you trace it back to an event in your life?

I am a musophobia, which means I have a phobia of mice.  I cannot necessarily trace this phobia back to any event in my life, but I just think mice are disgusting creatures and I don't want them living anywhere near my personal belongings, or in locations that I spend time in.  So, it's kind of weirdly interesting that I live in the country where mice abound.  We've had to kill less than 10 mice in our house since moving here 6 years ago.  I'm glad it hasn't been more.

DESSERT

Where are you sitting right now? Name 3 things you can see at this moment.

I am sitting in our office, on a chair that's not comfortable, typing this blog post.  I can see my son Ty (getting white paper from the printer so that he can build a paper airplane), my coffee mug, and my 2013 desk calendar.  I can also see piles of messes, which have accumulated over time . . . these messes are going to get cleaned up today!

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Thankful Thursday #2

This year I have been tracking my Thankful Three's in a different manner than I did in 2012. I will no longer be posting "Daily Thankfuls" on my blog, but you will get a glimpse into that part of my heart each Thursday, as I post three things I've been thankful for during the week. I'm following along with Ann Voskamp's Joy Dare Outline, which you can download and print here.

1.  A GIFT BRINGING LAUGHTER . . . A Wii game called Smarty Pants.  The boys and I have been playing this game every day for the past week, and it brings us to laughter every time we play it.

2.  A GIFT BRINGING PRAYER . . . My stepson is the gift, and his situation brings me to prayer each day.

3.  A GIFT BRINGING QUIET . . . Early morning, after Wayne goes to work and the boys are still in bed sleeping.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Top Ten Tuesday: Favourite Vegetables and Fruit!

Recently our family has been studying the Canada Food Guide, and its recommendations for daily intake within the various categories.  My focus has been on incorporating more fruits and vegetables into our diet--something that has always been a challenge for me by way of incorporating, and something that has been a challenge for the rest of them, by way of accepting and eating. 

It is not that I (or other family members) haven't studied the Food Guide in the past.  We all have.  But it was a good reminder for us all to realize the importance of incorporating a variety of foods into our diet, and coming up with some creative ways to do so.  I asked everyone to share some of their favourite fruits and vegetables with me, and we discussed what a "portion size is", and how we could incorporate more of the good stuff into our daily eating routines.  Actual portion size amounts was probably the biggest revelation for us all.  I have done my own studying of portion sizes in the past (confirming that my portion sizes for most items on my plate at supper were way larger than they needed to be!!!!), but it was good for my boys to actually visualize, or even see, what one serving looks like.  We got out the measuring cups and food scale, drawing conclusions about how easy it could be to be to incorporate a sufficient amount of fruits and vegetables, for example, into their meals and snacks.

Today I present you with my own personal favourite mix of fruits and vegetables. I chose to combine a vegetable and a fruit for the purpose of this top ten list, but I don't think I would ever eat any of them combined.  Also, I am aware that tomatoes are actually considered a fruit, but I myself would categorize them as a vegetable, based on how I use them in food preparation.

10.  Spinach and Pomegranates

9.   Leeks and Apples

8.  Tomatoes and Kiwi

7.  Carrots and Cantaloupe

6.  Celery and Bananas

5.  Cucumbers and Blackberries

4.  Peppers and Oranges

3.  Garlic and Pineapple

2.  Onions and Strawberries

1.  Potatoes and Watermelon

Monday, January 14, 2013

Motivational Monday: The Parable of the Stones

Many years ago (in the summer of 1995 to be exact), while I was working at a Bible Camp in northern Manitoba, I came across the story below in a kid's storybook, written by Max Lucado.  The book was called, Tell Me the Secrets, and the camp director's daughter and I used to spend hours reading this book together.  My favourite story from the book was called, The Parable of the Stones, which follows below.  Just a bit of a side-note . . . at camp there was a companion book to Tell Me the Secrets, called Tell Me the Story, which was also excellent.  Unfortunately, it appears that these books are no longer in print, and if I ever want to get my hands on them, I'll have to pay triple what they were originally sold for.  I would really like these books for my coffee table . . .
 
Front CoverProduct Details
 
 
The Parable of the Stones
Max Lucado
 
I must warn you, reader; before you begin. These words are ancient jewels mined from the quarry of my life. Read them only if you dare treasure them. For it would be better to never know, than to know and not obey.

The hand which writes them is now old, wrinkled from the sun and labour. But the mind which guides them is wise -

Wise from years
Wise from failures
Wise from heartache.

I am Asmara, merchant of fine stones.

I am a seller of stones. I travel from city to city. I buy jewels from the diggers in one land and sell them to the buyers in another. I have walked days through desert heat. I have dined with kings. I have drunk with paupers. My hands have held the finest rubies and stroked the deepest furs. But I would trade it all for the one jewel I never knew.

I have never known true love.

I have known embraces. I have seen beauty. But I have never known love.

If only I’d learned to recognize love as I have learned to recognize stones.

My father taught me about stones. He was a jewel cutter. He would seat me at a table before a dozen emeralds. “One is true”, he would tell me. “The others are false. Find the true jewel.”

I would ponder – studying one after the other. Finally I would choose. I was always wrong.

“The secret”, he would say, “is not on the surface of the stone; it is inside the stone. A true jewel has a glow. Deep within the gem there is a flame. The surface can always be polished, but with time the sparkle fades. However, the stone that shines from within will never fade.”

With the years, my eyes learned to spot true stones. I am never fooled. The stones I purchase are authentic. The gems I sell are true. I have learned to see the light within.

If only I’d learned the same about love.

But I’ve been foolish dear reader, and I’ve been fooled.

I’ve spent my life in places I shouldn’t have been, looking for someone with sparkling eyes, beautiful hair, a dazzling smile and fancy clothes. I’ve searched for a woman with outer beauty, but no true value. And now I am left with emptiness.

Once I almost found her. Many years ago in Madrid, I met the daughter of a farmer. Her ways were simple. Her love was pure. Her eyes were honest. But her looks were plain. She would have loved me. She would have held me through every season. Within her was a glow of devotion the like of which I’d never seen since.

But I continued looking for someone whose beauty would outshine the rest.

How many times since have I longed for that farm girl’s kind heart, her sweet smile, her faithfulness? If only I’d known that true beauty is found inside, not outside. If only I’d known, how many tears would I have saved?

I’d trade in a moment a thousand rare gems for the true heart of one who would have loved me.

Dear reader, heed my warning. Look closely at the stones before you open your purse. True love glows from within and grows stronger with the passage of time.

Heed my caution. Look for the purest gem. Look deep within the heart to find the greatest beauty of all. And when you find that gem, hold onto her and never let her go.

For in her you have been granted a treasure worth far more than rubies.

Seek beauty and miss love.

But seek love and find both.


 
"The following is a commentary by Angela Lang, in response to Max Lucado's Parable of the Stones.  You can read more of her thoughts here on her blog.
 
We’re taught to look at the superficial and make decisions based on that. In our hurried world we don’t have the time to look closely. And so we rely on cursory glances and fleeting impressions and we make our decisions. Decide in haste. Repent at leisure.

What have we missed?

Father, teach us to look closely, to see to the heart of things. Show us how to look past the superficial, the pretty exteriors. Give us the wisdom to see circumstances and people as they really are. Don’t let us be deceived by the temporal, transient and inconstant. Help us to make decisions that are right for us, decisions that are guided by You.

We pray that we our hearts learn to be grateful for what we do have instead of constantly seeking for something better, faster, shinier, prettier. We pray that our people begin to see the inner glow in our nation and the potential which lies within her.

Let us not be foolish following after things You have not set aside for us, and wasting our time, our lives, on something of no value.

Reveal our blessings to us and let us treasure what You have already blessed us with.

In Jesus’ name, Amen."


“Do not let your beauty be
That outward adorning of arranging the hair,
Of wearing gold,
Or putting on fine apparel;

But let it be the hidden person of the heart,
With the incorruptible ornament
Of a gentle and quiet spirit,
Which is very precious
In the sight of God.”

1 Peter 3:3,4

Saturday, January 12, 2013

It's About Time

Well, it's January 12th and I'm finally making some of the physical changes to my blog that I had hoped to do during my Christmas holidays.  Alas, time got away on me and over the past couple of days I've had a few moments here and there to re-vamp my blog.

So, my new blog title requires a bit of an explanation.  2012 was all about Thankfulness.  2013 is going to be about Grace-full-ness.  That is, me being more gracious to others, less judgmental of people in my world, and striving to live the life God has intended me to live, embracing the free gift of Grace that He lavishes upon me.  Of course growth is always a process by which there are painful moments, but also includes moments of epiphanies and realizations.  For me, this realization took 40 years to "get".

Grace is a word, that, until recently, I did not fully understand.  I believe that God has been moulding and shaping my heart for such a time as this, a year to drench myself in His Grace like never before.  I hope and pray that He will, in turn, use my growth to empower me to extend more grace to others, through His spirit living within me.

Again, I have been inspired by a book I recently read, entitled, Grace, by Max Lucado.  I briefly referred to it back in December, but I am hoping that more of my discoveries will be told as I post on this blog.  I have known in my head all about God's Grace since I was very young.  The term "grace" is tossed-around in society by people who don't even really understand how it relates to the God of the Universe, and there have been times that I have been one of those people. 

As I read through the pages of the book, God began to reveal some things about myself that I didn't exactly like, or even understand, but now I understand myself better.  My initial reaction to "how another person is, or how another person acts, etc." is often judgmental.  But I realize that what God wants my reaction to be is one of Grace.  He wants a heart that echoes the sentiment . . . "Grace Lives Here.", which replaces the judgment/anger/unforgiving spirit/hostility brewing in my heart, with a spirit and attitude of Grace, attuned to how the Holy Spirit wishes me to respond.  So, while I know I am not perfect, I long to have a gracious heart towards those I encounter both casually and deeply in my daily life.  For the past several weeks, I have been repeating in my mind . . . "Grace Lives Here" each time my sinful nature wishes to take over.  And believe me, it has happened more than I'd like to admit.

I look forward to unfolding each day ahead, as God reminds me of His Grace in my life and in the lives of others . . .
 
"And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you."
Ezekiel 36:26a

Friday, January 11, 2013

Friday's Feast #1

APPETIZER

Do you get excited when the season begins to change? Which season do you most look forward to?

Yes and no.  I really appreciate the fact that I live in an area of the world where there are four distinct seasons, but there are pros and cons to each season.  For example, Spring is lovely because of all the "newness" that is emerging in nature, and I also appreciate the slightly warmer temperatures that Spring brings; however, Spring also means a messy yard, muddy footprints and annoying wetness. 

My favourite season is Winter.  I am not like most people.  I enjoy cooler temperatures, the snow, hoar frost, and ability to "rest inside" during the little free time that I have.  I find that in summer, I always have this nagging feeling to get outside and tackle all the work that takes me away from more enjoyable activities.  I will say this, though:  last summer was my favourite summer of living on the acreage.  We did a lot of outdoor work to keep the yard looking its best, in anticipation of my 40th birthday party, which was held outdoors.  I am hoping that my motivation and inspiration to spend more time outside this summer will carry over from 2012.

SOUP


What day of the week is usually your busiest?

My busiest day of the week is usually Thursday.  Thursdays are spent homeschooling in the morning (or sometimes we volunteer at Toddler Gym Time at our church on Thursday mornings); then we bake with other homeschoolers and take our baking to a youth centre to play with the kids there.  Following that, we grab a quick supper and then it's off to take Mitchell to his drum lessons, followed by taking Mitchell to his weekly Youth event at church.  Depending on the Thursday, I may or may not have worship team practice.  If I don't have a practice, Ty and I usually hang out with Ty's best friend and his best friend's mom, or I make arrangements to get together with another friend.  If that doesn't happen, I run some errands.  There have been some Thursdays on which we left the house at 8:55 a.m. and returned home at 10:30 p.m.  I am glad that every day isn't like that . . .

SALAD


Would you consider yourself to be strict when it comes to grammar and spelling? What's an example of the worst error you've seen?

Yes, I consider myself to be strict when it comes to grammar and spelling.  There are many examples of "the worst grammar I've seen", but I would have to say that one of my biggest annoyances is when people misuse the words to, too and two in their writing.  I am also frustrated when the word "seen" is misused.  For example, "I seen an owl on my way to work." is not grammatically correct.  "I saw an owl on my way to work." is correct.  I am also annoyed when people misspell Mitchell's name.  It is often spelled with only one "l", and that just bugs me.

MAIN COURSE

Who has a birthday coming up, and what will you give them as a gift?

One of my closest friends is having a birthday soon.  In fact, tonight I plan to take her out for dessert and coffee to celebrate her birthday.  She loves books, so my gift to her will be a gift card to one of her favourite book stores.

DESSERT

If you could have any new piece of clothing for free, what would you pick?

This is easy.  I would pick a pair of black leather boots . . . almost to the knee and high-heeled.

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Thankful Thursday #1

This year I have been tracking my Thankful Three's in a different manner than I did in 2012.  I will no longer be posting "Daily Thankfuls" on my blog, but you will get a glimpse into that part of my heart each Thursday, as I post three things I've been thankful for during the week.  I'm following along with Ann Voskamp's Joy Dare Outline, which you can download and print here. 

So, here are my Thursday Thankfuls for today:

1.  A GIFT HELD . . . the hand of my husband.  His hands do so much in providing for his family.

2.  A GIFT PASSED BY . . . the deep, swirly snowdrifts, passed by on my way to work.

3.  A GIFT SAT WITH . . . my boys and husband at the kitchen table while we eat supper together.

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Top-Ten-Tuesday: Articles of Clothing

Here are my TOP-TEN favourite articles of clothing that I currently own (along with some pictures, some of which are good, some of which are bad:( . . . . I wish I had a picture of myself wearing every article of clothing mentioned, but that would have taken up too much of my precious time . . .

10.  My Pink Real-Tree Pyjamas.  Wayne gave me these p.j.'s for Christmas 2012 and I wish I could wear them more than just for sleeping in.  I love the Real-Tree pattern on the sleeves and legs, and the pink is just an added bonus!  My combination is a pair of drawstring-waisted pants, with a long-sleeved comfy top.  In the photo below, the pants look super-short, but they're not . . . they actually fit me (I have trouble finding pants that are both long enough and small enough in the waist to fit properly); they're just hanging from a shirt hanger and the legs are dangling down . . . I wanted you to see how cool the pant legs are in the Real Tree Pattern.


9.  My Black, Silver and Red Poinsettia Scarf.  My friend gave me this beautiful scarf for my 40th birthday, and the flowers on the scarf look like poinsettias to me, so I decided to wait until December to wear the scarf.  I got to put it to use a few times throughout the month of December, and I love to wear this scarf.  It's the highest-quality scarf I own, and I think it is beautiful.  It's quite long, too, which is good, since that gives me many options for how I can wear it.


8.  My Black Dress-Capris.  Well, I'm not sure if you could ever categorize capris as "dressy", but I guess it's the colour, material and detailing of these capris that slightly elevate them to something more than casual.  The bottom line is, when I wear these capris, I actually feel skinny.  Enough said.


7.  My Striped Tie-At-the Waist Casual Shirt/Blouse.  I was instantly attracted to this shirt/blouse.  The colours just made me happy when I saw the top initially, and the horizontal stripes are interesting.  Plus, the design is also interesting, as the shirt has "ties" on the left-side at the bottom, so the shirt can only be worn tied.  This top is just down-right fun to wear.

 
Me at my 39-And-Holding Party,
one day before I actually turned 40
 
6.  My Denim Skirt.  I love to wear skirts, and my favourite summer outfit would be a skirt with a cute top as opposed to shorts with a cute top.  My denim skirt is very versatile, as I am able to dress it up or down, depending on what top and/or shoes I wear.  This article of clothing is typically saved for spring and summer, but I have opted to wear tights with it on warmer fall and winter days.


5.  My Green Floral Dress.  I bought this dress for $15.00 at Old Navy about 3 spring-times ago, and I must say that I still enjoy wearing it.  It exudes a fresh, bright, spring-like feel, and my mood always lightens when I wear this dress.

 
Mother's Day 2011
 
4.  My Black Dress Coat.  The main reason I love this coat is because of the unique collar it has.  The collar looks kind of like a ruffle and a scarf rolled-into-one.  The coat is very slimming and I feel like a million bucks every time I wear it. 

 
3.  My Calvin Klein Winter Dress.  I've only worn this dress once (since I bought it right before Christmas), and honestly, when I tried it on, I stood in the dressing room for at least 15 minutes, staring at myself in the mirror, trying to decide if I hated the dress or loved the dress.  I decided to let the price be the determining factor as to whether or not I bought it.  Well, at the regular price of $160.00, I would have never even tried this dress on.  But I knew I had pulled it off a sale rack, and so when I took it to the clerk at the till, she informed me that it would be $48.00 total, including taxes.  My budget was $50.00, so that kind of cinched it for me.  I wore the dress the Sunday before Christmas.  Aside from my boys and husband loving it, I had only one other compliment on the dress, so now I'm kind of second-guessing my decision to ever wear it again.  However, since I have it listed at #3, it must be good for me in my own mind.  I keep telling myself that the opinion of others doesn't matter, and if I feel good in something, that should be enough.  The dress feels amazing on, because the fabric is so wonderful. 



2.  My Sherpa Hoody, which the boys gave me for Christmas 2012.  It is from the store Cabela's (Can you believe I actually have "favourites" from the Cabela's store?  Wait until you read about my #1 item:)); My gift from the boys was a wonderfully warm, fuzzy, and PINK zippered hoody, which I absolutely adore.  I really hope I don't shrink it or ruin it in the washer/dryer.  The picture below does not really do this article of clothing justice, and I know it's pretty out-there as far as colour/pattern, but I love it.



1.  My Cabela's Dress.  Wayne bought this dress for me for my 40th birthday, and I love every part of it.  The colour is fabulous . . . the print is fun . . . the material feels amazing to wear . . . the style is flattering . . . and it was all his idea, so I think that makes it extra-special!

Wayne and I at my 40th Birthday Party

Close-up of the fabric


AFTERWORD:
As you can probably tell from some of my articles of clothing, I really like colour.  I think colour does something to enhance a person's mood, and I'd rather be entering a room looking vibrant and cheerful than stark and boring.  Not that there isn't a time and a place for that sort of look.  Let's face it . . . Classic is also a very attractive look, and often the colours associated with Classic are darker hues/tones.  I actually LOVE wearing the colour black, but I don't want to live my life only wearing black.  I have other favourite clothes that I just couldn't fit into my Top 10 today, but almost every other item I would have considered listing here is made of a coloured fabric.  Go figure.

One other thing you may have noticed in this post is that aside from the capris I mentioned, there are no pants in my Top 10.  If there is any part of my body that I could change, it would be my butt and thighs (in other words, I don't prefer my butt or thighs), so to me, pants are never something that I find appealing on myself.  I wear them because I have to, and that's all.  Like I said in my #6 favourite, I love to wear skirts.  Skirts are my preferred "bottoms".

I hope you enjoyed a little glimpse into my wardrobe.  I really enjoyed putting this together for you all.

Monday, January 7, 2013

Motivational Monday: Motivation!

"Whenever I think of the word, motivation, I think of the sports world. I have been a sports fan for my entire life. Motivation is often a big part of which team wins or looses a game. Coaches will often credit “motivation” when they win and likewise will say there was a “lack of motivation” when they loose. Motivation is not something that can be measured but each of us knows exactly what it is. Sometimes we may be motivated to do things in our life and we follow through on a commitment or promise. Other times we can also feel the “lack of motivation” in our own lives. The Bible is filled with words that not only challenge us but give us motivation to overcome obstacles in our lives."
~Daryl Evans~ 
 
Isaiah 41:13 For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, “Fear not, I am the one who helps you.”


Tuesday, January 1, 2013

2013

Look forward to some changes on this blog, which will hopefully come into effect within the next week.

Happy New Year!  Welcome here, 2013!

Monday, December 31, 2012

Closing the Door on 2012

I bid farewell to 2012.  This was my 40th Year, and as a result, I attempted to "celebrate" as many of my days as I could, being eternally grateful that God has given me this much life to experience.  Some of the highlights for 2012 were . . .

1.  Attending a Chris Tomlin Concert;
2.  Taking the Boys to The Science Centre and Titanic Exhibit in Regina;
3.  A Visit from My Very Good Friend, Daphne, and meeting-up with two more fantastic friends while she was visiting;
4.  Our Very First "Big Event" in the Women's Ministry that I'm Involved in at My Church;
5.  Mitchell's and Ty's Drum Recitals;
6.  Completing the First Full Year of Homeschooling With Success!;
7.  Meeting A Fellow Blogger, Michelle, face-to-face for the very first time!;
8.  Planning and Executing My 40th Birthday Party (maybe I
should say "parties", since I had more than one party to enjoy:);
9.  Visiting My Sisters in Alberta and Doing Various Things with them;
10.  Visits From Various Family Members During the Summer Months;
11.  Attending the Third-Annual Sisters Weekend in Edmonton with my 4 sisters and one sister-in-law;
12.  Attending a Robin Mark Concert, and meeting Robin and His Band Members;
13.  Reading Many Inspirational Books.  The two that stand-out in my mind most are:  One-Thousand Gifts, by Ann Voskamp, and Grace, by Max Lucado;
14.  Re-Joining a Worship Team at My Church, after a 12-year hiatus;
15.  The Birth of Alaska's Puppies;
16.  Attending the Women's Journey of Faith Conference;
17.  Baking for Hands-On and Volunteering with my Boys;
18.  Getting to Know Some New Families and Watching My Boys Develop New Friendships with the Kids in Those Families;
19.  Cutting My Hair Shorter;
20.  Attending A Homeschooling Conference;

Today I am thankful for . . .

1113.  The gift of 2012.  I had so much to be thankful for!  God taught me many things this year and I experienced so many blessings!

1114.  The gift of 2013.  I look forward to seeing what God has in store!

1115.  The gift of God's Purposes Revealed.  I definitely don't "know it all about my future", but I love witnessing God's purposes and plan unravelling for me as a new year begins and unfolds.

Isaiah 46:9
 
I am God, and there is none like me,
declaring the end from the beginning
and from ancient times things not yet done.


Ecclesiastes 7:14
 
When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider: God has made the one as well as the other. Therefore, a man cannot discover anything about his future.
 

Sunday, December 30, 2012

Purposeful

Today I am thankful for . . .

1110.  The gift of Singing on the Worship Team this morning, but this time, under the "direction" of a substitute Worship Leader, as our Worship Pastor was away this week.  It was interesting (a good interesting) to be directed by someone else, and I loved all the songs we sang.

1111.  The gift of Visiting Friends Whom We Haven't Seen for 5 months.  We used to get together with this family every month at alternate homes; however, due to the husband's work schedule in the other family, they haven't been as available to keep-up with our monthly meetings.  We really missed them, so it was excellent to reconnect.

1112.  The gift of Feeling Purposeful, Rather Than Purposeless.

Saturday, December 29, 2012

Ski-doo Rides

Today I am thankful for . . .

1107.  The gift of A Clean Family Room in the Basement.

1108.  The gift of Friends Who Came By to Give the Boys Rides on Their Ski-doo.

1109.  The gift of An Unexpected Visit.

Friday, December 28, 2012

Meaningful

Today I am thankful for . . .

1104.  The gift of Attending A Very Meaningful Memorial Service.  My cousins and their children did a fantastic job of honouring their father/grandfather at my Uncle E's memorial service today.  My uncle was 97 years old when he passed away, and he left behind an example of service and dedication to his God and his family.  It was a blessing to be there and to reconnect with some of my "older" cousins.  The reason I say "older" is because they literally are 20 or more years older than I am, so when I was born, they were long-gone and leading their own lives away from home.  It takes occasions like today (although not the preferred reason to get together), for me to realize and appreciate the larger extended family I have. 

1105.  The gift of Playing a Family Game of Settlers of Catan (Seafarers).  It was a hilarious game of laughing and joking . . . and I won, which was amazing, because I don't usually do well in that game.

1106.  The gift of Boxing Week Sales.

Thursday, December 27, 2012

1000 Pieces

Today I am thankful for . . .

1101.  The gift of Seeing a 1000-Piece Puzzle Nearing Completion.

1102.  The gift of Coffee Out with Not Just One Friend, but Two Friends.

1103.  The gift of People Who Notice.

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Grace

Today I am thankful for . . .

1098.  The gift of A "Do-Nothing" Day.  I read books, did puzzles, played games, ate and watched a movie with my family.  For me, this is "doing nothing".  It was wonderful.

1099.  The gift of Discovering that the battery on my vehicle was dead on a day that we didn't really need the vehicle for anything.  I decided to head into town to pick up our mail, which I hadn't done for almost a week, and when I went to start the vehicle it was completely dead.  We've had severely cold weather here the last week, and I hadn't driven my vehicle since Christmas Eve, so I'm not sure what drained the battery, but it was powerless.  Wayne worked on it and got my vehicle running, and I'm hoping and praying that it's only a one-time thing and not something that will happen daily:(

1100.  The gift of God's Grace.  Yesterday I finished reading a book called Grace, by Max Lucado.  This book was a necessary read for me, because prior to reading it, I didn't really fully understand the true meaning and magnitude of God's grace in my life and in the lives of others.  One of my goals in 2013 is to live a life that is filled with more grace.  I believe that part of my journey this year in the area of thanksgiving has led me to the next step in what may be considered a process of refinement and growth, which I am going to call a mentality of "Grace Lives Here."  I want a graceful spirit to live in me and through me so that God is glorified and honoured in my life.

Here are some of my favourite quotes from Max Lucado's book:

"More verb than noun, more present tense than past tense, grace didn't just happen; it happens."

"Trust God's hold on you more than your hold on God."

"Grace is simply another word for God's tumbling, rumbling reservoir of strength and protection.  It comes at us no occasionally or miserly but constantly and aggressively , wave upon wave."

"Grace.  Let it, let him, so seep into the crusty cracks of your life that everything softens.  Then let it, let him, bubble to the surface, like a spring in the Sahara, in words of kindness and deeds of generosity.  God will change you, my friend.  You are a trophy of his kindness, a partaker of his mission.  Not perfect by any means but closer to perfection than you've ever been.  Steadily stronger, gradually better, certainly closer.  This happens when grace happens.  May it happen to you."

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Merry Christmas!!!

Today I am thankful for . . .

1095.  The gift of Celebrating The Birth of Christ.  May our first inclination at Christmas always be to worship Him above all else.

1096.  The gift of My Parents Visiting and Spending Christmas Day with us

1097.  The gift of Our Family Christmas Meal, which consisted of Chicken Cordon Bleu, Oven-Roasted Potatoes, Corn, Stuffing, Caesar Salad, Shortbread Parfaits, Punch and Coffee.  Needless to say, I am stuffed, but this is my favourite meal of the year.  We get out our finest china and crystal, plan an extra-special menu (we all join forces to come up with a menu plan, and try something new each year), and decorate the table for Christmas.  The boys were a huge help to me this year, and it was extra special to have my parents join us today for this time together.

Monday, December 24, 2012

The Sound of Music


Today I am thankful for . . .

1092.  The gift of My Nephew Joining Us for the Day to Hang Out.

1093.  The gift of Our Church's Christmas Eve Candlelight Service.

1094.  The gift of Our Own Little Family Christmas, with an exchange of gifts, yummy snacks and a viewing of the movie, The Sound of Music (which the boys had never seen before).

Sunday, December 23, 2012

Worship

Today I am thankful for . . .

1089.  The gift of Worshipping With My Church Family, and chatting with some good friends after church.

1090.  The gift of More Extended Family Time.

1091.  The gift of Many Gifts Received Today, as we remembered Jesus, Our Saviour and King.

Saturday, December 22, 2012

Tidying-Up, Catching-Up and Eating-Up

Today I am thankful for . . .

1086.  The gift of My Family Helping Me Tidy-Up the House before heading out to have Christmas with members of my extended family.

1087.  The gift of Catching-Up with Family at the home of my parents.

1088.  The gift of A Delicious Christmas Supper, prepared by my Mom.

Friday, December 21, 2012

Christmas, Christmas and More Christmas

Today I am thankful for . . .

1083.  The gift of A Successful Last Day of School and Christmas Party.  I love my students.  They are some of the most unique people I've ever met, and they come from one of the most unique societies I've ever encountered.  This morning we read stories, sang Christmas songs, did puzzles, played games and had fun.  In the afternoon we watched a movie, ate snacks and exchanged gifts.

1084.  The gift of The Start of Christmas Break.  It's finally here!  My house is a mess, I have 101 things to-do before tomorrow, and sleep to fit-in between now-and-then.  I'm not sure how it's all going to happen, so I guess if it doesn't all happen, I have to be okay with that.

1085.  The gift of Unpacking Groceries.  After work I went on a pre-Christmas grocery shopping trip, and I bought several things that are not on our "regular" list, simply because it's Christmastime.  My husband and boys were so excited as they unpacked everything and made discoveries of some of their favourite things:)

Thursday, December 20, 2012

"Wayne's" Baking

Today I am thankful for . . .

1080.  The gift of My Uncle E.  He was in his late nineties and I just found out that he passed away this evening.  My Uncle's family members recently posted some pictures on Facebook of his birthday party last month, and it was good to see him enjoying family time.  He is my dad's oldest brother, and I really loved him. 

1081.  The gift of Wrapping Gifts for My Students.  For the past two weeks, my grade 3 girls have been bugging me about "what the teachers are getting them for Christmas . . . "  Well, tomorrow they'll find out.  I hope they're not too disappointed with what they're getting.  All they keep telling me is they want something pink.  They have one pink item to unwrap, and the rest of the items are not pink . . . aah, yes, they are girls after my own heart:)

1082.  The gift of Baking Treats for Wayne's Co-Workers.  My husband is so cute.  At supper last night, he asked me in the sweetest voice he could muster . . . whether I could possibly make a pan of Cracker Candy for him to take to work on his last day before Christmas (which is Friday--tomorrow).  And, if possible, maybe a pan of Peanut-Butter Squares as well?  Of course I said yes, and I hope his work-mates enjoy every bite of "Wayne's" baking:)

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Light . . . In Its Various Forms


Today I am thankful for . . .

1077.  The gift of Baking Cookies with My Boys to Give Away Tomorrow.  On Thursday will be spending time at the charity we bake for every-other-week, but this time we're doing something different.  We're bringing a bunch of sugar cookies, icing and decorations with us so that the kids at our ministry location can help us decorate and eat them.  I think it's going to be a lot of fun!  I love spreading the light of Jesus in simple ways like this.

1078.  The gift of Seeing A Light At the End of This Tunnel.  I'm having a very strange December, and I can't say that it has been pleasant.  I wish I had more time to blog about everything that's been processing in my brain over the last couple of weeks, but as you can tell, I can barely get a post on here with three things I'm thankful for this month without having to "back-date" the post.  Perhaps after all the Christmas activity is over, I'll be able to spend some time "de-frag"ing (like, de-fragmenting the tiny pieces of my brain and putting them into logical thoughts) on here and let you in on what I've been processing of late.  All I can say is that I will be thrilled when 3:00 p.m. Friday, December 21st arrives, because then it's break time from ALL SCHOOL--for me, my boys, my husband, my co-workers, my other students--it will be wonderful.  I don't think I've ever needed a break from "the norm" more than I have this particular December.

1079.  The gift of A Brighter Kitchen.  For about 2 months or maybe even more (this is no joke:( . . .), my kitchen has been "lit-up" by one 100-watt incandescent light bulb.  What was supposed to be lighting it up is two large, bright, fluorescent light fixtures.  Unfortunately, for about two years, one of those lights hasn't worked.  In fact, in the 6 years that we've lived here, the one fixture right above my sink has only worked for about 1 year of the entire time.  We replaced both light fixtures with very expensive new ones about 2 years ago, but then the one that we had problems with from the beginning, continued to give us problems, "burning out" only weeks after it was installed.  My husband is no electrician, but yet he is very handy with electricity.  However, he wasn't able to get to the bottom of the problem until recently.  After several trips back and forth to various locations to try to get parts and advice in order to fix the problem, he finally was able to get what he needed, and do what he needed to do.  We now have a very bright kitchen and believe it or not, just that simple fact literally brightened my day and my mood.

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Many Gifts

Today I am thankful for . . .

1074.  The gift of Seeing Beautiful Deer on my way to work in the mornings . . . they've been out every day this week.  I think they are beautiful--I especially like the bucks.

1075.  The gift of Mitchell & Ty's Drum Instructor.  I think I've "thanked" him a couple of times on here in the past already, but mentioning him again is worth it.   Tonight the boys had a rare joint lesson together, and their teacher took them out for coffee/hot chocolate at Tim Horton's for a Christmas treat.  The boys really enjoyed just "hanging out" with their drum instructor.

1076.  The gift of Gift Certificates from some dear friends of ours.  The gift certificates are for one of my favourite family restaurants, so they will definitely be put to good use!

Monday, December 17, 2012

Fog = Hoar Frost :)

Today I am thankful for . . .

1071.  The gift of Fog This Morning.

1072.  The gift of Amazing Hoar Frost that came as a result of the fog.

1073.  The gift of Safety on My Way to Work as I was struggling to see where I was going in all the fog.

Sunday, December 16, 2012

Boost

Today I am thankful for . . .

1068.  The gift of A Confidence Boost from a Friend.  Her compliment today was exactly what I needed to hear in order to ward off some self-doubt and insecurity.

1069.  The gift of Receiving Christmas Cards.  I love giving them and I love receiving them (especially the ones with pictures--today I opened up an envelope and there were two pictures inside--one was a birth announcement, the other was the family greeting card (also a picture card).

1070.  The gift of Looking Through Recipe Books to discover new things to bake and/or cook.

Saturday, December 15, 2012

A Pink Poinsettia

Today I am thankful for . . .

1065.  The gift of A Morning to Myself.  Wayne and the boys left at 7:00 a.m. this morning to go do their Christmas shopping.  They were back by 10:35 a.m., but it was nice to have a few hours of uninterrupted time to get some stuff done around the house.

1066.  The gift of A Clean Fridge.  This was the main project I worked on while everyone was out of the house.  I always tell myself (as I begrudgingly clean my fridge), "I'm never going to let it get like this again."  And then a couple of months later, I hear myself chanting the same thing over again in my mind as the madness continues.

1067.  The gift of A Pink Poinsettia.  I love Poinsettias, and my boys surprised me with a pink one when they returned home from their shopping trip.

Friday, December 14, 2012

Beautiful Things

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uumI-PdeZzY
(click on the link to hear one of my favourite songs)

Beautiful Things - Michael Gungor

All this pain
I wonder if I’ll ever find my way
I wonder if my life could really change at all
All this earth
Could all that is lost ever be found
Could a garden come up from this ground at all

You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of the dust
You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of us

All around
Hope is springing up from this old ground
Out of chaos life is being found in You

You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of the dust
You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of us

You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of the dust
You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of us

You make me new, You are making me new
You make me new, You are making me new
You are making me new

You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of the dust
You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of us

You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of the dust
You make beautiful things
You make beautiful things out of us

You make me new, You are making me new
You make me new, You are making me new

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In the light of a senseless tragedy I was made aware of today, my heart is aching for people I don't even know.  I have held my family tighter and closer today, and I can only pray for those who are most directly affected by the incident, as they try to put the pieces of their lives back together.  I have no answers.  I just have knowledge of and relationship with a God who loves me and has called me to love others.  I can only hope and pray that something beautiful is made out of the dust along the way.
 
Today I am thankful for . . .
 
1062.  The gift of My Children, who are safe and sound in their beds tonight.

1063.  The gift of A Completed Skating Rink in our backyard.  Today was the boys' first chance to try out their new rink, which is bigger and better than ever before.
 
1064.  The gift of Hope in the One who was sent to save the world . . .
 

Isaiah 9:6-7

6 For to us a child is born,
to us a son is given,
and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
7 Of the greatness of his government and peace
there will be no end.
He will reign on David’s throne
and over his kingdom,
establishing and upholding it
with justice and righteousness
from that time on and forever.
The zeal of the Lord Almighty
will accomplish this.

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Good News

Today I am thankful for . . .

1059.  The gift of No Glasses for Ty and An Upgrade in Lenses for Mitchell.  Today was appointment day.  The boys both saw the eye doctor, and once again, the optometrist reported Ty's vision is about as perfect as it can get, which is a plus for him, because he really, really, really doesn't want to have glasses.  Mitchell's prescription was tweaked a bit, and thankfully, he's totally okay with having to wear glasses.  He actually likes having glasses.

1060.  The gift of Clean Teeth.  We also saw the dentist today . . . all three of us have one cavity each:( but now our teeth are as white as they'll be for yet another year.  Good news from the dentist--neither of the boys will need braces, for which I am very thankful.  I'm not sure how that happened . . . Wayne should have had braces (but chose not to--his parents actually gave him a choice in the matter, which I think was a bad parenting decision), and I did have braces . . . so, the fact that our kids have teeth as nice as they do (without help) is quite a miracle if you ask me.

1061.  The gift of A Fun Day with My Boys.  I surprised them today by letting them know that they could choose brand new skates at Canadian Tire.  They've never had new skates in their life, so they were pretty excited.  We usually take them to a place called The Skate Exchange, but the last time we did that (2 years ago), we found that the second-hand skates were almost as expensive as brand new skates, and with Canadian Tire's major sale on skates right now, we got a great deal and probably spent less than if we had taken them back to the second-hand store.